Sunday, November 2, 2025

When something unexpected happens, our instinct is to do something … anything! A problem pops up, and we rush in to fix it. We want to prove we're capable, strong, and needed. But sometimes, even with the best intentions, our quick reactions cause more harm than good.

Proverbs 14:12 reminds us, "There is a path before each person that seems right, but it ends in death."

It's a sobering truth: what feels right in the moment isn't always wise. Our desire to solve things quickly can cloud our ability to see clearly. Often, we jump to conclusions, speak too soon, or take action before we've paused long enough to seek God's direction.

In action movies, agents leap at the first sign of a crisis. But, when we are facing our own dilemmas, the better move might be to pause, take a breath, pray, and invite others in to help us discern the best next step.

Maybe today you're facing something that demands a response. Before rushing in, pause and ask God to show you the right path. Odds are, he'll guide you toward peace and clarity instead of panic and chaos.

Discussion Questions:
Ice Breaker: What's something a friend, neighbor, or family member has helped you with that you couldn't have done as easily on your own?

How do you see your community responding to the needs of people who are going through a crisis?

Read Ecclesiastes 4:9-12: How can sharing life with others help us learn essential life skills like caring, trusting, and loving?

What qualities do you look for in a friend?

Reflect and Respond: How might you take steps toward finding or becoming that kind of ‘back-to-back’ friend described in Ecclesiastes 4:12?

Prayer:
Lord, when life feels urgent and uncertain, help me to pause before reacting. Give me wisdom to see what's truly right, not just what feels right in the moment. Teach me to trust your voice above my impulses, and remind me that I don't have to face any crisis alone. Amen.

Series Theme Verse:
Romans 1:20
For ever since the world was created, people have seen the earth and sky. Through everything God made, they can clearly see his invisible qualities - his eternal power and divine nature. So they have no excuse for not knowing God.

This post was written by Lori Tuckerman, Director of Content for the Daily LivingItOut.